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Argue Less, Talk More
by Jefferson Fisher

“The fastest way to lose your peace of mind is to give someone a piece of yours."
JEFFERSON FISHER

 

FROM THE BOOK
“To get you there, I’ve broken it down into two parts.

Part one tells you how to first connect with yourself. That sounds woo-woo, I know. But it’s not. It’s about where to go in your mind when conflict appears, and most important, how to leverage the mindset for better outcomes.

Part two teaches you how to use that leverage to connect with other people. How you connect looks different based on context, whether it’s working through a difficult conversation or needing to stand up for yourself. Whatever context you find yourself in, I’ve created three rules that will build the connection for you:
Say it with control.
Say it with confidence.
Say it to connect.

Behind each rule are proven tactics you can use immediately. Throughout this book, I’ll show you what confident communication looks, sounds, and feels like. You’ll learn from real-life stories from my personal and professional experiences. You’ll also see yourself in hypothetical conversations that hit close to home. You’ll learn what to say and what not to say, and of course, how to say it.

After reading the pages ahead, you’re going to be able to remove the difficult from difficult conversations, making space for more real in your life. Real friendships, real connection, and real growth. And I don’t just mean at home or in relationships. You’ll find the real you starting to show up at work and in meetings. You’ll respond to texts and emails differently. People will know where you stand. You’ll watch your confidence turn into credibility—and that, I can’t wait to see.”
 
 
Brian's Notes
Jefferson Fisher is, as per the back flap of the book: “a trial lawyer, writer, and speaker whose work to help people communicate during life’s everyday arguments and conversations, with his practical videos and authentic presence, has gained millions of followers around the world, including celebrities and global leaders.”

In addition to that... You can tell he’s just a REALLY good human being.

Now... I’ve read a lot of books over the last few decades (if my math is right, this is PN #725) and this book is at the VERY top of my list of best books ever. It’s ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT.

If you’ve ever had a difficult conversation (wink ;), I think you’ll find it as helpful as I did. I HIGHLY recommend it. (Get a copy.)

As you’d expect, it’s PACKED (!) with practical, life-changing Big Ideas. As always, I’m excited to share some of my favorites so let’s get to work!

Big Ideas

01: ALIGN WITH YOUR VALUES

02: RULE #1: SAY IT WITH CONTROL

03: RULE #2: SAY IT WITH CONFIDENCE

04: SAY IT TO CONNECT

05: THE 47-SECOND VERSION


“There ain't no good guy. There ain't no bad guy. We just disagree"
DAVE MASON, "WE JUST DISAGREE"

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